

The current manosphere is basically a pipeline to the alt-right and additional radicalization. The distance between incel to proud boys is quite small.
The problem is that any attempt to make a pro-men group with any of the positive agendas you list will attract the same people as an audience that are already in the manosphere. And then you have the Nazi bar problem.
Grew up Mennonite. This reminds me of a bad joke, usually said tongue in cheek.
Sometimes sarcasm belies a kernel of actual belief. Many Mennonites wouldn’t consider the joke ironic.
This Onion article is funny, but it’s also not funny because so many people are accurately represented by it, and this is sad.