Her parents hound them about having kids. We told them that the decision is too big for anyone else to push you into it. If they choose to, we will love them and help - but we’re not quitting our lives to play Grandma/Grandpa daycare constantly. If they choose not to, then we probably won’t have grandkids and that will be ok too. I think our other son might like to have kids but he’s nearing mid-30s and isnt seeing anyone. He says he’d prefer to be an uncle than a dad, but if he had the right partner i think that could change.

They’re happy with each other and the time they spend together. They’ve said they dont feel the need to procreate and they currently feel like the world is not a place to bring a kid.

I have adult children. They will probably not have children.

Try not to guess. It usually just leads to more trouble. Only really ok if you get out down to two numbers and can backtrack if your wrong.

There’s plenty of fun stuff that’s neither of those. Check out photography or opossums or silly drawing request. That two sentence horror group is good. So is daily games.